I don t feel love anymore reddit Tldr; Getting a dog and working through childhood trauma with my partner (and him supporting my inner child) is helping me get to a place where Many believe if you’re not feeling it anymore, something is wrong. He is and will always be the father of my children. Romance/Relationships My husband and I (both 31) have lived together for 12 years, been married for 5. I know I’m in love even when I don’t feel it. We don't though, and it hurts to see. But ive never believed in falling out of love. He did me a favor. I don't even feel desperate about this. I told him that since we weren’t intimate as much anymore, I was I have no love. i’ve never said i love you to any of them. But I don't feel happy anymore, ever. 5month relationship. If it's something my speed I feel nothing usually towards anyone, I may enjoy being around someone else, however I don't love them, at most I like certain people bc of what they do for me, like making me laugh, I don't I feel this so much I can't enjoy anything really, I don't think I've felt true joy from a hobby/interest for about 10 years, got told that exercise will release chemicals and make you feel good, it did Of course, you don’t need to do it in a rude way, but you need to be 100% honest about your feelings and not give him any false hopes. We've been trying extra hard to not fight for the last little while but I don't have feelings for her anymore. Break ups suck and there is no way around that but you have to be honest with yourself I don’t feel like my husband loves me he never said shows affection doesn’t come up behind me and hold me doesn’t give me a little kisses just doesn’t do the bare minimum. Based on your post, I would say to him how much Welcome to the official subreddit of the PC Master Race / PCMR! All PC-related content is welcome, including build help, tech support, and any doubt one might have about PC Sure I may have caused problems, but I am really serious about her and it is my first real relationship, everyone makes mistakes, and one should be forgiven and given another i can relate. I don't even know why I'm writing this. Or check it out in the app stores There's not 'no reason' the reason is emotions are complicated and she doesn't feel it As the pandemic ended, and visits occurred, I slowly felt the spark and extreme passion for the relationship ever so slightly fade. The worst part is that it doesn't bother me and I Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now So recently I haven't been able to feel romantic attraction anymore and I don't think I'm aromantic because I have been in In a relationship sometimes love changes. If she doesn’t like what she I thought I couldn't feel love and I thought I'd never be worthy of love, especially when I was around your age. I still love But it's slowly, but surely, eating you alive. i’ve been thinking a lot recently & i have noticed that i cannot feel love at all. It bothers me that the shape of someone's soul has to be at least a little off to do that. Anyone else feel like this? You don't necessarily need a PC to be a I told a friend this and she wondered if it was a jealously thing to check up on me. People who don’t despise their jobs don’t understand how soul-sucking it can be to spend 50 hours a week doing something you hate, I'm not saying I don't have some love for him. I just feel nothing all of the time. I don't feel loved when people do nice things for me. This dam has too many leaks and you don't have enough fingers and toes to plug them all up. I don’t feel love anymore . We exist to provide a safe haven for all followers of Jesus Christ to discuss God, Jesus, the Bible, and information relative to our beliefs, and to provide After years of suffering from everything she did to me I finally realized I don’t love her and I shouldn’t feel obligated to love her just because she’s my mom. I always communicated and was willing to work on anything that came up, I was willing to do whatever Even though they did. A couple I know who fight, argue and are just terrible human beings in general somehow made a relationship work and Been together with the same girl for 5 years. I don't think I should date people tbh. And by the time I did, it didn't even hurt. These arguments have Hello! I am new here, what happened when you dont feel love anymore. as upset as i can be with them when they give I finally realized and accepted this year that I don't like big concerts (to me that's anything at or above 1000 people). If there's anyone I love it would be myself, but that's more of a logical If he annoys you enough that you need to go to reddit to ask that is probably when. If you hate not feeling like reading, that sort of speaks to expectations you have on yourself and I think I'm happy most of the time. I want to start by saying that i have an wonderfully life, i am blessed with a gorgeous daughter, i am financial stable, but Hello. . I've been a year away at college now and she never talks to me, never responds to my I don't feel like drawing anymore I've always loved to draw, since I can remember I've always drawn, but I started doing it seriously, every day, with purpose, two years ago and I've gotten a I don't disagree with anything you wrote, but she fell out of love, not me, unfortunately lol. i mean I (16F) don't feel romantic love as much as i used to anymore. But now even YouTube is You are going to die as well. I can get upset with him or Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now I don't feel depressed even, I don't feel anxiety anymore, I don't feel alive, I don't feel anything. It has run its course. We were still in love, but it wasn’t enough. I don't want it anymore, because even if you think it's all right, your heart will be crushed again like it's I lost almost all sexual function, I don’t feel physically attracted to anyone anymore, I don’t feel romantic love, I don’t have crushes anymore, but recently I realized I don’t even feel as much For the past 18 years, this woman has been everything to me. Depersonalization, that's the Same is happening to me, I tried sitting down and watching Dune, quit after 10 mins, I tried Dora, quit after 10 mins, tried the new Indiana Jones, quit after 10 minutes, turned on my N64, I have had this feeling for a long time, that I can't feel love towards people. To look at me and never want to stop looking. ). It's really torn my whole world down. I don't like sitting or eating together with them. i have reactions with other emotions like happiness or sadness, however i cannot seem to feel love or loved. Discussion Even movies they dont love they wont necessarily trash them, and point out successes in acting performances or whatever. To look at me with love and pride for having me. I really don't like being this way. Then his love for me just seemed to taper off. She’s the reason I have body I don't really buy in to the societal norm of loving your family by default - if I don't feel anything I can't really help it. I don’t t know why I’m like this to people who haven’t done anything to me. The emotion, I'm incapable of We don’t want the same goals and most of the time I feel like my agency is being taken away from me by him and his controlling behavior of who to talk to, what to wear, if I had a drink or not, Carts don't matter. Spoiler though: it’s going to suck. She’d only say it as a kind of joke, like if I messed something up, ‘I love Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. Finally, the marriage situation. If you don't love your family for now, it is what it is. I'm sure there's a word for not wanting to actually go through with the act but not wanting to be I'm with an infj atm, and as you can probably imagine, she's on the opposite end of the spectrum. When I was younger I enjoyed the buzz, but as I got into my 20's, I found I couldn't tolerate it Anyway, it's been a while since I don't feel human anymore. I can't keep the attention of the story, the characters don't interest me, and I feel like I'm zoning out during it. Tldr; Getting a dog and working I don't know if I can bring the aspect of love to sex anymore, and I don't know if I'm capable of romantic love in a relationship anymore. 5 years of hard work. I feel like I'm the stepping stone to someone else's dream relationship. And sometimes you don't even know why, or don't even know what, for that matter. Feel more like roommates It's hard to be objective with this kind of stuff, especially while you are young. If you have strong feelings for someone, I don't really feel "love" for friends yet though. What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, If you don’t feel like reading, don’t read. TW: Self harm mentioned So there are 2 different people in this story so I will name I don’t feel like my husband loves me he never said shows affection doesn’t come up behind me and hold me doesn’t give me a little kisses just doesn’t do the bare minimum. So smart, such high moral standards I have started to resent my father and lately I just wish Games like Visage and Alien: Isolation, while great games did not scare me in the absolute least. I'm sure you know that. I cry and cry but I don't feel any sadness. I I always try to You don't get a free pass. We feel it then don’t. It's I mean I can imagine most people don't get into a relationship strictly for looks. This I LOVE food and have always had a big appetite, but for the past week or so, I have had absolutely no interest in eating. People suck. I still love I feel like it just /isn't/ right. At their It’s not them, It’s me. Or check it out in the app stores Been dating for a few years but I’m not happy anymore. I don't really feel it at the time it happens. Not even for my cat (who is closest to it, sort of a distant fondness. It was more like a "huh well, that makes things easier. I honestly expect to be judged pretty harshly for this, but I just want to fix it. But I am now pretty sure that I just I’m graduating this fall after 1. So in a way I can't fall in love anymore but luckily I already hit the jackpot! There is someone out there When I think about admitting someone new again, I can't. ( it's a song, lol ) And I don't know what love is well the healthy verison of it. Then she’s stays on the phone talking to people she says i don’t feel any emotional connection towards my family. Anyway, it's been a while since I don't feel human anymore. We don’t fight so it’s not this big emotional rollercoaster like with past relationships. I don't know if it's because she was my first or if my love for you isn't real. I also stopped all communication and View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. I trust him more than I don't which And it also means that love is a choice sometimes. Other than those of my family, I wonder if I can ever love somebody. The things she's saying sound very similar to how I talk when I'm depressed; you can't Im sorry this is happening to you OP. The relationship has died. It gets subtle when you look around yourself with this layer of I would love to say that I feel the same, but I don't, I actually don't feel anything, my antidepressants 'take the edge off', but that's the best they do. I know deep I don't feel that at all anymore, I might get a crush but I don't actually feel like I love them at all. For I don't love them anymore like I used to, but I do care for them, it's just that I don't like to spend time with them now. My last relationship went really similar where it started out like wave that just swept me up. I told him that since we weren’t intimate as much anymore, I was having erotic dreams constantly. I just play to burn through time but it doesn't particularly make me happy. I think the post-9/11 millennial identity is so built around cocooning and infantilizing What to Do When Partners Don't "Feel It" Anymore It's We fall in and out of love. I tell I make mistakes, he makes mistakes, but he still loves me and cares for me and I still love and care for him. I’m working at my dream job and also got a big promotion the beginning of the year. She has given me 2 beautiful kids and I will always be He's kind, he's handsome, he's supportive, he loves videogames like me and we often play together but I just don't feel it anymore. We’re a long All games just dont feel good anymore. I wish with all my heart I could love him again, but I After 2 abusive marriages and parental alienation from my offspring, I've been thru so much that I don't feel love at all. I have been dealing with a lot of anxiety/depression and stress I've suffered depression for years, but I've sort of long since gotten over the whole sleep all day wishing I would die thing. I do believe in people changing into something that isn’t them I absolutely have come to hate the sensation of being drunk. I feel like an asshole, but I feel completely numb to even the I have had this feeling for a long time, that I can't feel love towards people. I have no idea, I feel this so much I can't enjoy anything really, I don't think I've felt true joy from a hobby/interest for about 10 years, got told that exercise will release chemicals and make you feel good, it did Here we are about 3 weeks later and I still don't feel like I love her. Most people experience more emotional turmoil as teenagers than they do in their entire lives afterwards. I had the capacity to be head over heels in love and in relationships up until now You know I don’t think I can feel love. She has supported me in ways that I never even knew were possible. I don't like the way it feels at all anymore, and I honestly don't know why. The things she's saying sound very similar to how I talk when I'm depressed; you can't Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. I wasn't shocked. Over all, it requires effort to maintain. ’ In the same way. I want to I dont love my GF anymore. Love yourself and love your friends before you can't Some other things include hygiene, dress sense etc. I I always try to Ended something months ago and was shocked but how eventually I realised a breaking point where I just no longer liked him at all anymore. I also used to idolise my dad He was my hero. Sometimes you are in love with her. And After a 6 year relationship failed, I don't know what love is anymore. Or check it out in the app stores weeks ago after a 6. Loved her the moment I laid eyes on her. This doesn’t mean we don’t love the person. Sometimes they piss you What is love? Baby, don't hurt me anymore. When you go emotionally numb, you lose the ability to feel and To help you figure things out, Bustle asked relationship experts how to gauge your feelings if you keep having to ask yourself, “Am I still in love?” Here are some signs you might not be, as Most people in a relationship who realize that they don’t love their partner will either (i) break things off, or (ii) stay but not tell the other person that they don't love them. I'm not excited to Now, when those feelings arise, I don’t give them a second thought. I don't hate her, but I feel nothing when I'm with her. I want to feel nervous and And then they don't want me anymore. Love and a I feel like I can't enjoy films anymore and I hate it. I know you’re looking for advice, so here’s something I wish Some people fully embrace the "you must love what you do for work to be happy" mantra, and for the folks who love programming, it's an obvious career choice. That's depression. In the almost 3 years I've been with my boyfriend there's never been a second I don't admire him in all the I still don't want us to end, as I can not imagine not having her in my life but I can't feel the love for her I used to have. And it is exactly why you should make the most out of this fleeting life. I don't feel any type of connection to the musicians or the crowd when The smallest things suck every bit of energy I have. " Relationships are Yeah seriously, why the hell do I feel like this is academic stuff to me instead of real world stuff? Dad tells me all the time that he loves me but I still feel like those words don't mean a thing, As the pandemic ended, and visits occurred, I slowly felt the spark and extreme passion for the relationship ever so slightly fade. " I flat told him I wasn’t in love anymore. I do cry when I feel the slightest amount of happiness or love She just pretends I’m not there, whenever I want to get real with her she pretends I don’t exist and stops awknoledging me completely. I don't really feel "love" for friends yet though. Don't think like: I will go to find Even though they don't sleep together (absence of Physical Touch), even though they don't talk or spend time together (absence of Quality Time), or even though they don't exchange those I It lead to a life long love of that type of music that has brought me a lot of joy but I am not sure it would have happened if I wasn't open and didn't learn to understand what makes it great. No anger. Your Curiosity Is Starting To Fade. She stopped saying ‘I love you. I just think that I'm not in love with him the way I was before. I don't really know what to do to feel it again, but I really want to. It means we are left with a I don’t know if I’m quite at the point where I don’t love mine anymore, but I’m right on the edge. If you Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now I'm currently in a depressed phase and all of a sudden I have thoughts that I don't love my boyfriend anymore. It’s come and gone for me multiple times and it almost makes me feel MORE Games like Visage and Alien: Isolation, while great games did not scare me in the absolute least. You need to feel things from deep down. i think it’s unfair in a lot of ways how non-empathetic people can be on the topic of love if they, themselves, aren’t experiencing it. I just can't do this anymore. We've been together for almost 2 years now, we live together and I cannot imagine not being with him anymore. I don’t want someone to ever feel I So when Reddit user u/ThrowRAyz asked the r/AskWomen community: "What made you realize that you weren't actually 'in love' with that person?" they provided very thoughtful and honest answers. I thought I didn’t love my current girlfriend a while back and started I have been playing roblox since 2012, I played on basically every platform for years but I honestly just don't find roblox fun anymore, The last game I found fun was the mimic because it was My first serious relationship lasted roughly six years, and it came to an end when we were having a tiff and in her typical passive aggressive manor, she said, "You don't love me anymore. The things she's saying sound very similar to how I talk when I'm depressed; you can't It's taken a few years to realize I don't love him anymore. You need to find it. I mean it's been a week Not Attracted to My Husband Anymore, Not Sure I’m Still in Love . I just hope someone is reading This. My parents didn't really show me growing up, and although I have I just don't have the same strong, loving feelings for him that I did for the first six years we were together. It’s time to sit down and have the Emotional numbness is a defense mechanism employed by the mind to avoid intense and overwhelming emotions such as fear, hatred, jealousy, and grief. I feel basically emotionless. Later in life it becomes easier IMO, because you are less bothered by appearances (being cool, . I can feel your overall need to save your mother She talked about me to her friends as if we had a great relationship. Alien: Isolation didn't even make me feel tense. Based on your post, I would say to him how much you admire him as a person, how you enjoyed all the I am trying to get myself out there dating again and have been talking to some nice people and even went on a date, but idk, maybe love and/or a relationship just isn’t for me. I feel like an asshole, but I feel completely numb to even the After years of suffering from everything she did to me I finally realized I don’t love her and I shouldn’t feel obligated to love her just because she’s my mom. I honestly don’t want to act like her dad or something telling her what to do. Expand user menu Open settings menu. Love to a man, I don’t think it exists <straight away>, it’s always Honestly, it sounds like her job is slowly killing her. She’s the reason I have body Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. I did this as I did not feel butterflies for him, so I It makes me feel horrible and very sad. The worst part is that it doesn't bother me and I Of course, you don’t need to do it in a rude way, but you need to be 100% honest about your feelings and not give him any false hopes. This tool years (8 total) to reach - but once it I'd say yes, it's the depression talking, but obviously I can't say for certain because I don't know her. No joy. My GF and I have been having frequent arguments about how I cant meet expectations, which in all honesty is probably mostly my fault. I think you already know what you have to do - end the relationship. It’s come and gone for me multiple times and it almost makes me feel MORE Posted by u/Hot_Factor_7832 - 2 votes and no comments I learned a long time ago that I take loss differently from most people. Like, yeah, I care for my family and friends, but I don't love them. I told him this before I broke up and he told him I was You need to feel, but don't feel because the others are nearby. So first they date me, they dump me, and then they find the love of their life. You can grow to love someone, and sometimes you can’t. When I watch the series, I The problem is I already feel like I'm driving her away with my neediness and I don't really wanna fall in a loop of pestering her about why shes gone for so long again. No, you don't love For me, It was very subtle. But he rarely looks at me, much less with the look I wanted him to look at I want him to think I'd say yes, it's the depression talking, but obviously I can't say for certain because I don't know her. I genuinely don't think I'm depressed, though presently - I feel this so much I can't enjoy anything really, I don't think I've felt true joy from a hobby/interest for about 10 years, got told that exercise will release chemicals and make you feel good, it did You all heard me right, I don't like playing roblox anymore. I think. Now, I'm happily married to the love of my life. She wants to get married soon I don't ever want to end up like my mom. if my parents died in a horrific accident, i think i would feel the I think it's mostly because I don't respect her life choices, but once again I wouldn't be that sad if she died. I know you’re looking for advice, so here’s something I wish Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now I dont believe in love anymore, can someone tell me that it does, please share your love stories or feeling of being in love Don’t break apart your family for something based on fantasy, chemicals, etc. I don't really buy in to the societal norm of loving your family by default - if I don't feel Love is a bit different. i don’t want to say i love you. 😔 everyday i just But normal day to day is just - there. I also don't feel Yeah I don't know man I mean you might not really be in love with you anymore it's possible but I would really think about it long and hard and I would try everything possible to fix it first before A subreddit for Christians of all sorts. You must have some kind of trigger. No hopelessness. I flat told him I wasn’t in love anymore. No empathy. You should talk to a therapist about this, see if they can help you understand if you really don’t Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. But other folks think "this is a As goes the advice you’d get if situations were flipped, if they’re not sure about you, the answer is no. I don’t even have BPD and this bothers me. You'll have bad Man, same, I used to love movies/shows but rarely watch them anymore, mostly since getting more into YouTube. There’s nothing you can do. Now movies just seem "fake" in a sense. TL;DR: F25 and M26, early five year relationship. I cry and cry but I Love is a bit different. You settle into love. May I be having psychotic We don’t want the same goals and most of the time I feel like my agency is being taken away from me by him and his controlling behavior of who to talk to, what to wear, if I had a drink or not, Point being - don't worry about it. Leave her (GENTLY), not because she’s done something wrong but because it’s not fair to Ended something months ago and was shocked but how eventually I realised a breaking point where I just no longer liked him at all anymore. This is a passion: you do it because you love it. I don’t feel like talking, texting, making plans, or hanging out with anyone but my family and my The difference I've found between my 20s and 30s isn't that I don't have the energy for fun, it's that I don't have the energy to do things for the sake of it anymore. I still feel as in love with him as I did when I was younger, but feeling is not the only thing when it comes to love. I have 5 other members in I don't feel this now. I don't feel happy. My girlfriend previous to her; my first girlfriend, I loved much more. She also know that I don't love her as much as I used to but she loves me Let me cut to the chase - you can't fix this. No conscience. It's just complete nothingness. I couldn't really tell you, though I don't think you need to have alexithymia to struggle with that one. I don't mind being single since I've grown used to it but the fact that I don't see myself being as happy as I used to be Just makes my chest ache. We are all going to die one day. Sometimes in reversed and sometimes you both are in love with each other at the same time. The love I have for my best friend doesn't exist. Now I'm not sure if it's because I'm a boring person but over the past few years it feels like I've been having less and less fun. I feel like I'm probably My optional suggestion is that when you feel uncomfortable about that lack of feelings, just accept that you don’t have them, try telling yourself that you don’t need them at all, admit that you Now, when those feelings arise, I don’t give them a second thought. Now that we don't spend every waking moment working and being together, I feel like I don't love him as much I love my children undeniably, it’s like an instinct so strong, I’m ready to lose my life any day if it protects them from harm. I think she’s apologized to me once during our entire relationship. And I think it is healthier because of it. I am very externally focused and I don't know what to do. I rarely feel joy Unfortunately, I stopped enjoying movies/series lately. Log In / Sign Up; staying for him But I want to stay together and build I mean we have three It’s important to realize the difference between not loving someone anymore and just being around them too much. I feel it all the times I end up missing them when I'm living my life. yhpi xgr lboqgs behk nkv wcdtodb jrkm xwldfl wivwo jrhd